Questions and Answers: Girl Version

So a friend of mine came up with 14 questions that we want to know from a guys prospective. I asked three guys who have completely different personalities and opinions. So each question will have three answers. REMEMBER they are opinions take them or leave them.

1. Do you think that the girl should offer to pay for a date every now and then?

          Guy#1- Yeah not the majority of the time but on occasion

          Guy#2- Occasionally... like 1 in 5/6?

          Guy#3- It depends on the situation generally the one does the asking should be prepared to pay, though the guy should generally try to pick up the lion's share in this case.

              

2. Is it normal to be texted for a date now? I still expect to be called or asked in person, but I sometimes wonder if I'm the only one.

          Guy#1- Called or in person

             Guy#2- Just for a date?  I'd be offended if I got a date refused just based on the fact that I asked with a text.

             Guy#3- I believe that calling or asking in person is the most appropriate way to do it, but sometimes texting can be appropriate in limited circumstances.             

3. Hair curled or straight?

          Guy#1- Straight

          Guy#2- Ummm. Depends on the face shape. You should know this, your a girl.

          Guy#3- Depends on the girl

4. Is it impossible for boys and girls to be just friends?

          Guy#1- Yes but from my experience some feeling are always there 

          Guy#2- Yes. Duh.

          Guy#3- It's very hard to go back to the friend zone after anything more intense has happened

5. Batman or superman?

          Guy#1- Superman

          Guy#2- Superman. But given a better choice X-23

          Guy#3-Batman

6. Chuck Norris or Sylvester Stallone?
          Guy#1- Stallone
          Guy#2- Stallone. But given a better choice Steve Irwin
          Guy#3- Chuck Norris

7. Do you think it's awkward to open up a girls door when she is getting out of the car?
          Guy#1- I open the door everytime
          Guy#2- When she's getting in, yes. When we're getting out, no
          Guy#3- No

8. Do you think that it is ok to break up with a girl in a round about way in which no words are said? (i.e. getting the sno shack girl's number whilst on a date with the person you are dating?)
          Guy#1- No either be straight foreword or you dont mean it
          Guy#2- No. That shouldn't even be a question. Who would do that?
          Guy#3- NO

9. PC or Mac?
          Guy#1- PC
          Guy#2- PC
          Guy#3- It depends on what your using if for graphic designing or programming, so either really, as it depends 

10. What is one thing that you wish girls did that would make them easier to understand?
          Guy#1- I have no idea
          Guy#2- I wish girls would tell us stiff to our faces. If you have a problem, tell us so we can fix it! Even if we're not dating, don't tell your girlfriends what's wrong with me. Tell me! how duh can it get? 
          Guy#3- Speak their minds clearly

11. What's the hardest part about dating from the boy's side
          Guy#1- Making sure you don't offend her and keeping it exciting
          Guy#2- Right now, the money.  But normally, just try to help with conversation starters.  I can only ask so many questions before I start to sound boring.

          Guy#3- Asking the girl out and trying to decide what things during a date really mean

12. Deep down inside, do you actually enjoy watching chick flicks that girl's make you watch?
          Guy#1- Eh. Somtimes
          Guy#2- Some of them. But A Walk to Remember is just stupid
          Guy#3- Depends on the movie

13. What are three big turn offs for you when you get to know a girl?
          Guy#1- Downing herself, Showing too much skin, and Not talking about problems
          Guy#2- First, telling me about a nerd you bullied (because you deserve a slap).  Second, how much you like horses (why do I live in Idaho?).  Third, telling me to build muscle (I try every day, stop being picky).

          Guy#3- Twilight, playing dumb and Twilight
    

14. Cookies or brownies?
           Guy#1- Brownies
           Guy#2- Tough Choice...Brrrrrownies. I think. GAH! How soft are the cookies?
           Guy#3- Depends on the day

So I hope that this helps any girls out there looking for advice, and its your choice if you get offended or not! enjoy!

Questions and Answers

Alright so I have had a couple Guy Friends ask me questions about girls, dating, relationships, breakups etc.. So this blog post is dedicated to those questions and my answers. Just FYI, these are MY opinions so you can take them or leave them! Enjoy!
Q: What do Girls look for in Guys?
A: Well, Girls are looking for guys who are fun to be around, who have standards and are hard workers, and is good looking. 
Q:What can guys do to get better indications of why girls like them or do like them? 
A: DO NOT over think things. If a girl is talking to you and expresses how much she enjoys being with you, then that probably means she like you. If she rather be with you and likes doing the same things, then she probably likes you! And if all else fails, LISTEN!!! 
Q:How to behave on a date?
A: Be a gentleman. open doors, be polite, and most importantly BE YOURSELF! She wouldn't be out with you if she didn't like your personality!
Q:How do you do a DTR?
A: Well, you just have to sit down with the girl in question, Express your feelings about her and where you are hoping this relationship leads. Ask her what her feelings are, and where she thinks the relationship is headed. If she says she needs to think or pray about it, then give her time. Be PATIENT. DO NOT rush her! 
Q:If you break up with a girl and you're still friends, is it acceptable to ask what I did wrong?
A: Yes, you do. You have the right to know what you did wrong so that in the future you don't make the same mistake. Every relationship you learn something new, that will help you in future relationships. So if you guys are still friends, then she shouldn't have a problem with telling you what went wrong!

So that is all the questions I received thus far. I will answer more if they are given.
I hope this Q&A helped whoever needed it! 

Healing Hearts, New Friends, and New Beginnings

I have done alot of soul searching this week and these are my conclusions:

My heart is finally healing. I feel like I can move on with my life. I can be my own person, I can laugh and cry and jump up and down, and just be me. A a new me. A me that is stronger and better than ever. This song helped me alot though the past few weeks.

So I found some new friends!! and they are awesome! You know, its good that I am meeting new friends and that I am able to do that!! 

And as for New Beginnings, I feel like I have a fresh start. Let me just give you a rundown: Since my breakup, I found out I have enough scholarships that I don't have to pay for my tuition or books this fall/winter track! I have enough money saved up to pay for an apartment for fall semester, and just recently, I found a job that works with my school schedule so I can work and go to school! I am so blessed, and I am so grateful for all that I have been given~ 

Well, that is all for know!

So Live, Grow, and Learn!

Love Lynzi!!

Parade, Fireworks, Drunk People... & Hope

Yes I know, its a odd title! Lets start at the beginning:
The 4th of July Parade: so Wed. was the 4th of July!!! Happy Independence Everyone! So I went to the Parade in Rexburg, It was sooo fun much! my cousin Taylor was in it. 
Holy Fireworks: So when we were on our trip back East, we stopped at the World's Largest Firework Werehouse and he bought about 100 bucks worth of fireworks! So lets just say, our fireworks show was AMAZING!!!
Now as for the drunk people.... So I went and played night games with one of my friends. And we went to Idaho Falls Tauphus Park. So we got there and there were some other groups of teenagers, who were drunk and probably high, but we ignored them. So when we started playing a game, this one kid came over and asked if we could watch his long board, he was drunk out of his mind, and we said we would. But then he came back a few minutes later and asked if our group was mormon, we said we were, and then he said he would leave so that he wasnt a bad influence to us, cause apparently he was LDS for 14 years and then got into some bad influences, so then he left. Then we started playing again... but then we all got this really bad feeling about there, so we left and finished our games in Iona Park!
And as for the last one... HOPE
We all need a little hope. I feel that I am moving on from my break up, I will remember the good times and how much fun we had. but I want my life to move on, so i am moving on.
Have a lovely night everyone!!!
Lynzi!!!